通了。

There's a well-known sentence we Chinese always use to describe situations when it comes to who could be relied on. 

‘靠山，山倒。靠自己最好。’

Many girls out there trying to search for rich men so that they can have easier life in future.

But, can these 'rich' men be relied on? 

There's no guarantee that you will stick with them in the rest of your life.

Be independent. 

There's nothing wrong if you need people to be relied on, 

but make sure if one day you lose them,

you still have the ability to continue the run without them.

It's call a contingency planning. 

We all need back-ups.

We cannot fully depend on a person no matter who he/she is.

Even if your another part is loyal,

he's still a human not an immortal.

Don't be proud if you're driving a luxury car,living in a beautiful house being 'supplied' by your man.

Even though you have a high position but that is ALL because of him...

perhaps you should start thinking about your contingency planning.

Each and everyday,

my aim is to improve and be a better person compare to the day before.

Prepare to be the person I dream to be in the future.

Prayers,mindset and motivations are leading me through this journey.

It is never too young to think further about the future.

Longer planning time will ensure a better result;

Last minute plan goes wrong most of the time.

It is not easy to trust a person and it is even harder for a person to trust you.

These two are the base of 'trust'.

But when you found a person,

you 'trusted' that person 'trusts' you but then,discovered he never did.

That's the most disappointing part of trust I've ever encounter. 

I cannot blame anyone,

not even the person that did something to ruin the bond,

because I know I made a mistake and caused this huge misunderstanding,

although it may not be a mistake for most of the people around me.

People judge things by its surface.

It was actually not like how its surface look like.

A month passed, 

problem is still unsolved.

Don't even have a chance to explain and is being labelled unfaithful, backstabber, promise breaker...

Even if we try not to touch this matter the problem is still there.

Used to think and doubt whether it was just being treated as an excuse.

But, I still have the 'base trust' towards this person.

I trust that this person is mature enough to think and decide upon all his actions.

He actually influenced my way of thinking and now I'm becoming a better person.

That's precious as we all seek improvements,not changes. 

Problem still left unsolved and whenever I think of it I feel tired.

Problems could actually be solved,

if there's still a deeper trust in it.