通了。

There's a well-known sentence we Chinese always use to describe situations when it comes to who could be relied on. 

‘靠山，山倒。靠自己最好。’

Many girls out there trying to search for rich men so that they can have easier life in future.

But, can these 'rich' men be relied on? 

There's no guarantee that you will stick with them in the rest of your life.

Be independent. 

There's nothing wrong if you need people to be relied on, 

but make sure if one day you lose them,

you still have the ability to continue the run without them.

It's call a contingency planning. 

We all need back-ups.

We cannot fully depend on a person no matter who he/she is.

Even if your another part is loyal,

he's still a human not an immortal.

Don't be proud if you're driving a luxury car,living in a beautiful house being 'supplied' by your man.

Even though you have a high position but that is ALL because of him...

perhaps you should start thinking about your contingency planning.

Each and everyday,

my aim is to improve and be a better person compare to the day before.

Prepare to be the person I dream to be in the future.

Prayers,mindset and motivations are leading me through this journey.

It is never too young to think further about the future.

Longer planning time will ensure a better result;

Last minute plan goes wrong most of the time.